Healthy Love VS Emotional Abuse

Healthy Love VS Emotional Abuse

Relationships exist on a spectrum from healthy to abusive, with differing levels of unhealthy relationships in between. Sometimes, it's hard to tell when a partner’s behavior has become abusive.

 

Here are some warning signs that indicate a relationship isn't a healthy one:

 

  • If you’re crying all the time in your relationship, that’s not healthy love.
  • If you’re constantly over-explaining your needs & defending your interests, that’s not healthy love.
  • If you’re constantly being put down or being called “crazy” or “stupid”, that’s not healthy love.
  • If you’re being told the phrase “If I can’t have you, no one can,” that’s not healthy love.
  • If you feel like you can’t make your own decisions, like what to wear or eat, that’s not healthy love.

  • If your partner uses technology to control or monitor you from afar, that’s not healthy love.
  • If your partner disapproves or gets jealous of you spending time with others, that's not healthy love.
  • If your partner makes you feel guilty or ashamed for not wanting to have sex, that's not healthy love.
  • If your partner punishes you by withholding attention or affection, that's not healthy love.
  • If your partner constantly accuses you of cheating, that's not healthy love.

In addition to recognizing red flags, it's important to understand that emotional abuse is characterized by a pattern of behavior designed to control and frighten, rather than a single, isolated incident. While a single incident of yelling or a bad argument is harmful, it does not necessarily mean a relationship is automatically abusive.

The distinction for emotional abuse lies in the repeated pattern, intent to exert power, and the systemic (often subtle) erosion of the victim's self-worth over time.

If you or someone you love is experiencing emotional abuse, Peace at Home Family Shelter is here for you and available 24/7 through our crisis line: 479-856-5501. You can also contact us via email at help@peaceathomeshelter.com.

Healthy love is real and you deserve it.



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